Surviving Awkward Facilitation Moments – Nicole Clark Consulting

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Plan, replicate, and put together for subsequent time.

Because the world continues to reopen, conferences and conferences that transitioned from in-person to on-line in the course of the COVID-19 pandemic are returning as in-person occasions.

As a core part of my work, facilitating conferences and workshops happens often. Whether or not for a shopper assembly or extra publicly in a workshop setting, I’ve performed round with my facilitation style based mostly on viewers and subject material. Every time I facilitate, I study one thing about myself every time.

From dealing with logistics and planning your meeting or workshop structure, to being fully present, facilitators take into account many issues to make sure the expertise is schooling and pleasing for the viewers.

Nevertheless, regardless of our degree of preparedness, generally things don’t go as planned. Some awkward moments are simpler to bounce again from within the second, whereas others require reflection and planning to avoid them in the future.

Contemplate these essential facilitation elements as you develop your technique for decreasing awkward logistical and viewers moments as a lot as potential:

Awkward logistics

I as soon as facilitated a two-day digital convening by way of Zoom. I labored with the convening organizers to construction breakout teams, actions, discussions and breaks.

The attendees knew the convening dates months in superior, they knew which breakout rooms they have been assigned to, and so they have been supplied the chance to ship a colleague of their place within the occasion they couldn’t attend. They have been additionally requested to verify the newest model of Zoom was downloaded to their desktop or laptop computer.

Not solely did some attendees hop out and in all through the convening, some arrived late. This was a logistical nightmare, and it was annoying to help attendees to get into (or in some circumstances, again into) the Zoom breakout rooms and troubleshoot tech points.

Logistical issues are sometimes mapped out (like a digital assembly), however there will likely be issues that you could’t plan for (like when conversations go awry). With this digital convening, the logistical points have been largely based mostly on attendees’ prioritization of a digital convening. Regardless of the planning, we couldn’t account for the truth that some attendees simply didn’t view the convening as a precedence. In an in-person setting, there’s fewer distractions and attendees are capable of place their consideration within the second.

Awkward viewers experiences

In a unique facilitation occasion (this time, an in-person occasion for an additional group), the actions modified a lot in the course of the occasion on the request of the convening organizer that it turned overwhelming to facilitate. From my perspective, it felt just like the group was on the defensive to keep away from confrontation with the attendees. They didn’t have sturdy relationships with the attendees and their respective organizations, which performed out in the course of the occasion.

Pivoting is critical and most facilitators have a method for making this pivot occur as easily as they’ll. Nevertheless, the connection between the convening group and the attendees was so strained, that no quantity of pivoting was capable of reduce it. The strain was so thick that I questioned myself because the facilitator.

Planning for future awkward moments

Debriefing after a facilitation is a good way to establish what went nicely, what didn’t go nicely, and what steps to take to scale back their occurrences in future facilitations.

Utilizing the instance of the two-day convening:

  • The conveners and I despatched a comply with up electronic mail to the attendees that included assembly notes and different supplies, together with a reminder of the group agreements that have been created by the attendees previous to the convening. These agreements included decreasing distractions as a lot as potential (whereas understanding that life occurs) and being current by means of our conferences. We now not had these points throughout subsequent conferences
  • In later conferences, we made certain one particular person stayed behind in the principle Zoom session to supply tech help in order that the facilitators didn’t have to fret about this

For the in-person occasion:

  • The shopper group and I mentioned the mistrust the attendees had with their group, and methods to start decreasing the mistrust. Through the assembly, the shopper group recognized a number of subsequent steps. As a step to extend communication and accountability, they shared assembly notes and subsequent steps 24 hours after the assembly.
  • In addition they developed inner methods for protecting these attendees engaged with them, from offering funding sources to supporting the attendees is networking and making connections. These small modifications slowly construct to elevated engagement with these attendees. A number of months later, the facilitation went extra easily. There was extra familiarity among the many attendees, and there was extra time spend strategizing and fewer airing out grievances
  • Additionally, I began the comply with up facilitation addressing what had taken place on the first assembly and invited the shopper group and attendees to replicate on what had taken place between the final assembly and now. This allowed me to get a temperature test of the area to find out if shifts within the agenda wanted to be made.

Key takeaway

Surviving awkward facilitation moments is a matter of planning and reflection. Every facilitation means that you can establish themes in your facilitation experiences and plan learn how to deal with points head on.

Debriefing after a facilitation helps establish steps to take to scale back future logistical and viewers awkward moments (as a lot as you may.)

Subsequent week, I’ll present a extra detailed model of this debrief train.


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