Inside: Season 3, episode 7 of the Rebranding Center Age podcast.
In 2016 I wrote a short post that went viral all over the world. It clearly touched one thing deep in many individuals. Right here’s one tiny snippet from that put up that I need to speak about right now: “What if I embrace my limitations and cease railing in opposition to them. Make peace with who I’m and what I want and honor your proper to do the identical.”
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present notes: embrace your limitations
A part of the dialog about embracing our limitations is known as a dialog about what determines our price. What are your markers of success or worth? I don’t imagine our worth and value are tied up in self-improvement (or performing or leaping by way of hoops). After we cease railing in opposition to the fact of life, and we make peace with the total reality of who and the way we’re, lovely issues start to develop.
I additionally discuss in regards to the story that larger is best and that many individuals imagine a ‘small life’ is dangerous or less-than. ‘Small’ or ‘huge’ apart, what I care about is that if our life is values-aligned. If we’re constructing a soul-honouring and sustainable life. A right-sized life. (By the way in which, I first heard the time period ‘right-sized life’ from Kathy Gottberg.)
One method to deepen self-trust and have your personal again is by honoring or embracing your limitations. After we befriend our whole selves we’re extra capable of acknowledge the place we now have leaky boundaries, we’re intentional about who and what will get our restricted assets, we refill and pour out from a wholesome place, we be taught to really worth ourselves. We stay with extra influence and pleasure.
However the dialog doesn’t cease right here. After I speak about embracing our limitations, I additionally encourage us to embrace our strengths and presents. We’re each power and battle, twisted up collectively. This too is a part of the work of quieting the noise and befriending ourselves – the fullness of who and the way we’re.
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