She thought she would do his new girlfriend a favor. She determined to inform her he was a narcissist. She simply needed to warn him. You realize, a sisters factor.
Hassle is, it backfired.
The brand new girlfriend was nonetheless within the charming and love bombing part with him. She cherished this man. Subsequent to her earlier boyfriend she thought he was superb.
The new girlfriend had already completely purchased it when he defined his ex was loopy, so when she known as to warn her of him, it was simply taken as proof of her craziness and maliciousness.
With that his tales of her conserving the youngsters from him have been additionally accepted so she would pile on when the youngsters did go to, telling them how terrible their mom was.
The connection between the brand new girlfriend and her ex was solidified on the premise of her being the enemy. It lasted for years.
I’m positive you’ll be able to respect the ethical of this one.
Actually suppose twice about leaping in in your ex’s new relationship.
Hold your boundaries tight.
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