Set off warning. This submit discusses violence in opposition to ladies.
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I requested straight if there had ever been hitting between his mother and father.
He spoke of how his dad was violent together with his mom.
After I requested if it ever stopped, he stated it did, at the least for some time.
I requested how.
He described a violent and chaotic scene. Dad was on a tirade, mom screaming. He knew she was going to get it once more. He apprehensive that this time it will be worse.
He bought a bat and took on his father. Adrenaline was pumping.
He by no means struck his dad, however his depth and mid adolescent dimension was sufficient for his dad to again down. He threatened his dad that if he ever hit her once more, he would kill him.
Mother by no means left his father. This fellow left dwelling earlier than reaching twenty.
He himself was a delicate fellow.
He wanted to handle trauma contributing to alcohol consumption.
He had been to earlier therapists. I requested if this had been mentioned earlier than.
He stated no. Nobody had ever requested.
He did properly in remedy. We chatted about all of it.
Over my 40+ years of follow, this may be a situation I might hear now and again.
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